how do we move from online to offline relationships and what are the challenges that affect us in this transition?  Last post I talked about virtual body language & how online communicating can be enhanced to discover whether someone is a good match.

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Today I’m going to review be2.com relationship assessment The questionnaire is short, easy to complete & not too taxing to the gray matter!

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security is usually an issue in any relationship, whether we base everything on that goal or whether we don’t care about it all.  It is difficult to match a couple with the same attitude towards security and this can prove to create difficulties down the line.

When I was young I read Alan Watt’s book ‘The Wisdom of Insecurity’ which was a brilliant read!  Alan wrote: ‘What we have forgotten is that thoughts and words are conventions, and that it is fatal to take conventions too seriously.’  Maybe I should stop writing now, while I’m, ahead???

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we all know the feeling when we have a wonderful ‘in the flow’ conversation or brainstorming with another. It’s a rush & often we take some great ideas or inspirations away to ponder or change our lives! So what does it take for a meeting of minds? Firstly we do not all think in the same way & even though thoughts are the end result for everyone, there are different sources of those thoughts.

There are 4 types of thinkers:

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do you ever find yourself circling around the heart of a matter, finding it difficult to get a definite connection to what is going on in your mind or feelings? It usually shows up as a soft fluffy cloud that seems to have settled on your brain.

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