how do we move from online to offline relationships and what are the challenges that affect us in this transition? Last post I talked about virtual body language & how online communicating can be enhanced to discover whether someone is a good match.
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life is going so fast these days and most of us have so many commitments that it is even hard to find time to share love with our partner. Like anything, the more time we invest in our relationships the more return we receive back from them. This is of inestimable worth & value when our lives rush on towards the inevitable…… death!
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most people are looking for a perfect match, in business or love, in spite of the fact that we all know that perfection doesn’t really exist. To start with we are not perfect as individuals, yet some of us expect to find ‘perfect’ in a partner? And some of us have given up not willing to settle for imperfect? Try the polls below & let me know your position on this question.
The word perfect is from the Latin perfectus meaning “completed”. It implies that it would be all over if we found a perfect match anyway.
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success means different things for different people and it is great if both partners in a relationship have similar definitions. The word success meaning “result, outcome,” comes from the Latin successus ‘an advance, succession, happy outcome’. The combined effort of more than one person, can certainly contribute to easier, more sustained success than one person solo. Success can be very tangible & solid or it can be much more subtle depending on the type of success that is desired. There are four main categories of success are:
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the biggest challenge in matching a couple is to match each individual’s requirement for commitment. The word commit comes from Latin committere “to bring together” from com- “together” & mittere “to put, send”. It seems to be an integral & important ingredient in making any relationship long term and to give it staying power. The big ‘C’ word is what scares a lot of people, particularly men, but if we have nothing binding us together, a relationship will slowly fade away. However the reality is that we all have different ideals and images about what commitment means for us and this is not often addressed.
‘A bride at her second marriage does not wear a veil. She wants to see what she is getting.’ Helen Rowland
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