asking the big question today, if you are a woman: what do you want from online dating? The gender divide brings a complexity to real life dating & even more so to online dating.
‘The great question that has never been answered, and which I have not yet been able to answer, despite my thirty years of research into the feminine soul, is “What does a woman want?”‘ Sigmund Freud
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most people are looking for a perfect match, in business or love, in spite of the fact that we all know that perfection doesn’t really exist. To start with we are not perfect as individuals, yet some of us expect to find ‘perfect’ in a partner? And some of us have given up not willing to settle for imperfect? Try the polls below & let me know your position on this question.
The word perfect is from the Latin perfectus meaning “completed”. It implies that it would be all over if we found a perfect match anyway.
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freedom is a key need for every person, relationship or nation to evolve and develop. Inherent in freedom is respect for oneself and others. Basic in our interactions with others, we need to honor them as we want to be honored. This means taking responsibility for ourselves and our actions and giving others the opportunity to do the same.
‘We must recognize that the suffering of one person or one nation is the suffering of humanity. That the happiness of one person or nation is the happiness of humanity.’ HH Dalai Lama
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the biggest challenge in matching a couple is to match each individual’s requirement for commitment. The word commit comes from Latin committere “to bring together” from com- “together” & mittere “to put, send”. It seems to be an integral & important ingredient in making any relationship long term and to give it staying power. The big ‘C’ word is what scares a lot of people, particularly men, but if we have nothing binding us together, a relationship will slowly fade away. However the reality is that we all have different ideals and images about what commitment means for us and this is not often addressed.
‘A bride at her second marriage does not wear a veil. She wants to see what she is getting.’ Helen Rowland
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Having another person involved in a relationship in any capacity immediately changes the dynamic between two people. This can be a positive experience or it can shatter a couple’s trust, depending upon the attitude of the individuals involved. Some of the possibilities are:
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