danger of virtual when there is not enough real

I love technology because it makes communication very easy, cheap & accessible and I love communication.  Communication is the bridge that links us with other humans.  However recently I have noted a danger with virtual connections when there is no live or real interface.  It seems we need a balance between virtual & real so that technology can continue to serve our humanity.
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the competitive urge

how competitive are you in a partnership?  This is an important issue for matching couples because we all have individual requirements for outlet of the competitive urge in intimate relationships.  It’s OK to express unbridled competition in business and work relationships, although even there too much competition can destroy any trust or teamwork in a business or organization.  The Beijing Olympic Games made me think of about competitiveness where it serves the athletes and how it serves us or not in the sphere of relationships.

“Focus on competition has always been a formula for mediocrity.” Daniel Burrus

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healthy couple matches

I would like to encourage environmentally friendly relationships and healthy couple matches!

This post is dedicated for Blog Action Day 2007 to the Environment….

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left or right brain?

we all have different development as regards our brains and this can strongly affect how we relate and who we relate with.  It is helpful to understand & know our own leaning or orientation and what parts of the brain we may need to develop. It is often the undeveloped that we may be attracted to in others but it is important that we try to develop this so we can see all sides of the picture (or should I say brain?)

Let’s have a bit of fun so check out this picture and identify which way the girl is moving, then look again to see if changes?  Check out this link to find out whether you are Right Brain or Left Brain

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crossing the hormonal divide

You’ve gotta love being a woman & being subject to hormones from woe to go! It turns out that they tend to dominate your body through the life – with their comings & goings. Beware a hormonal woman! Of course it is these little messengers that are also responsible on a biological level for the impetus for relationships. Its always a great reminder to me that at some level I am not in control as the phases of my life unfold – on some level I make the best of these natural things! brain female sm crossing the hormonal divide I decided that I would investigate them and found the following information: ‘Hormones carry messages from glands to cells to maintain chemical levels in the bloodstream that achieve homeostasis. “Hormone” comes from a word that means, “to spur on.” This reflects how the presence of hormones acts as a catalyst for other chemical changes at the cellular level necessary for growth, development, and energy. As members of the endocrine system, glands manufacture hormones. Hormones circulate freely in the bloodstream, waiting to be recognized by a target cell, their intended destination. The target cell has a receptor that can only be activated by a specific type of hormone. Once activated, the cell knows to start a certain function within its walls. Genes might get activated, or energy production resumed. There are two types of hormones known as steroids and peptides. In general, steroids are sex hormones related to sexual maturation and fertility. Steroids are made from cholesterol either by the placenta when we’re in the womb, or by our adrenal gland or gonads (testes or ovaries) after birth. Steroids determine physical development from puberty on to old age, as well as fertility cycles. Peptides regulate other functions such as sleep and sugar concentration. They are made from long strings of amino acids, so sometimes they are referred to as ‘protein’ hormones. Growth hormone, for example, helps us burn fat and build up muscles. Another peptide hormone, insulin, starts the process to convert sugar into cellular energy.’ So that explains the physical reality of what happens, but not how to adjust to as the hormonal rhythm which goes up & down during our lifetime. Many years ago I also learnt about xenoestrogens from reading a book called ‘Passage to Power’ by Leslie Kenton. These are artificial female hormones which can heighten your risk of breast cancer and prostrate cancer. They are found in plastics and in the hormones that are fed to stock. We have to be careful not to get too many of xenoestrogens or it throws us off balance even further! When my dad got prostrate cancer he had treatment with female hormones as well as chemotherapy. He did eventually died of another species of prostrate cancer. It all seems so reflective of needing to achieve balance in our lives, our relationships and our bodies and of the challenges we face in this time on the planet where so much seems to be out of balance! Yin/Yang & Feminine/Masculine & Love/Death

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