do you speak the same ‘language’?

a recent study has discovered that people who talk the same talk, or speak the same ‘language’ are more likely to want to see each other again in the dating game.  This backs up my idea that communication is one of the most important bridges between people.  Without it any type of relationship is doomed to challenge.

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marriage is for the guys now

yet another study has determined that men are now no longer scared of marriage but are just as interested as women.  This may be because women’s interest has declined as they also discovered that women value their independence & freedom & are not as eager anymore to sacrifice them for marriage.

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‘It’s complicated’ status more prevalent now

it appears that young people approx 18 to 25 do not have an exclusivity contract with each other & ‘it’s complicated’ is the status that is more likely to be the status quo.  The big C (by that I mean commitment) is a bit out of date now but of course this can cause problems in any relationship, both health & psychological issues.

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is trust the new love drug?

oxytocin has been considered almost a love drug as it tends to cultivate trust in those who have it in abundance as it cultivates trust in others.  As you know relationships cannot exist without some sort of trust in oneself and of course in the other person with whom we are relating.  Once trust is destroyed it takes a lot of work to save the relationship, if it is not a casualty of the betrayal.  Could we take oxytocin in these cases to help heal the breach of trust?

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do tears really turn men off?

A recent study has determined that crying women turn men off sexually.  Apparently there are chemical signals in the tears that  turns down the aggression in men.  This goes against what we always felt as women, that it is easier to relate, be kind to someone who is crying.  The whole study was done with crying women so it is definitely not a comprehensive study.

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