No, we’re not talking about an orgasm.  In fact, we’re not entirely sure how to fake an orgasm through text messages.  If you know, please let us know.  What this refers to is faking a relationship when you’re dating online.  What does it mean, to fake a relationship?  It means that you adapt yourself to the other person, charming him or her, so that you can accelerate a relationship you are not sure you want.

Why People Fake It

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This is such a heated topic in the bar scene, and it’s even more controversial in online dating.  It seems like a reasonable thing to do, right?  If a woman is good looking, you should be able to tell her so.  In fact, not being afraid of a woman’s beauty and being at peace with your own manly desires is rule number one in the guy’s flirting handbook. 

Why then are so many experts claiming that you shouldn’t tell a woman how beautiful she is? Well, this is an obvious point.  Some guys take “you are beautiful!” and hammer it into the ground, never contributing anything else to the conversation.  Do you now see how annoying this can be to a woman who wants to talk about something else besides her body and your manly desires?

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Have you been burnt by online dating before?  Maybe the problem is you have been going after “broads.”  That is, broad searches.  The general dating population.  It’s very difficult to find a perfect match when you set your sights on the wide open sea, where there are plenty of fish and not a lot of rules.Honestly, how can you be surprised at this turn of events?  You probably date the old-fashioned way.  You filter in anyone from age 18 to 65 who is online right now and who has a profile photo.  That’s the best way to talk to someone, right?  Yes, and if all you want is a fun conversation, you’re set for a great night.

However, finding a soul mate using a broad search is just asking for trouble.  This all goes back to the notion that there is a “perfect lover” just waiting in the wings for you.  No, there is no perfect lover.  However, there is a flawed diamond out there who does like the same things you do, and who comes from a similar background.  Isn’t a diamond worth searching for?

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“A picture is worth a thousand words.”  Who of us hasn’t heard that saying before and found it to be very true?  It is especially true when it comes to online dating.  Seeing a person’s smile is worth a whole book of words describing it.  So if you just recently slapped up that cell phone picture you took at 2 AM as your online dating profile (you know, the one in which your hair is a mess) and are wondering why you aren’t getting any replies, we may have the answer for you.  It’s because your image sucks! 

A Quality Picture Showing a Quality Life

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Did you know that your profile picture says a lot about you?  No, not just the type of body shape you have, or the type of race you are.  A photograph is an inside look into your soul and you want to show a beautiful soul on a dating website.  Despite what they say about judging a person by appearances, you can actually tell a lot about a person from their eyes, their facial expression, their body posture, their clothing and the background. 

Important Photo Factors

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