how about a change?

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change is a constant and needs to be taken into account in every relationship. Nothing stays the same, no one stays the same – we are constantly unveiling our potential. This is of course problematic when matching a couple because where they are at the start may not be where they are at the finish! They may be happy to be together but if their rate of change is different or they change in different ways, what can be done.

“Change is inevitable-except from a vending machine.” Robert C. Gallagher

Some tools that are useful in this process are
1. Accept that change is as inevitable as breathing
2. Openness to the opportunities that can be revealed in change
3. Spirit of adventure
4. Understanding that change can stimulate interest or attraction
5. Awareness
6. Flexibility

“Most of us are about as eager to be changed as we were to be born, and go through our changes in a similar state of shock.” James Baldwin

There are lotsa bonuses that can open through change. How can we support ourselves through change particularly in or due to relationship.
1. Take it easy on ourselves & our partners – this minimizes the effect of stress which takes it toll whether it is good or difficult change
2. Relax – also minimizes cost of stress
3. Take it slowly while the psyche integrates the changes
4. Communicate – this is the bridge that can carry love & forgiveness which are always a plus in a relationship

“A fanatic is one who can’t change his mind and won’t change the subject.” Winston Churchill

The issue of change is easily incorporated when matching a couple through astrological means because astrology is the art/science of change. So we are right at home with the idea that nothing is rigid & fixed in time and can see the relevance & importance of change. It supports vision backwards & forwards & right now. Altho I do not believe that astrology is like telling the future, it certainly can highlight possible changes in the psyche of an individual & suggest whether a couple can sustain the inevitable changes during their time together & whether they both have a similar attitude to change.

“Just because everything’s different doesn’t mean anything’s changed.” Irene Porter

The other important point to note is that these days change occurs more rapidly and that people are more used to change. This of course augurs well as in even a short period of time we can observe how people we are relating to enjoy or withstand change. We can check out our similarities and note our differences. As long as there is a common note in our attitudes towards change, we can enjoy the ride together. It is when there are no similarities in our attitudes to change that we may need to pass on matching up, whether in love or business.

“Two basic rules of life: 1. Change is Inevitable 2. Everyone Resists Change. Remember this: When you are through changing… you’re through.” Unknown

“They always say that time changes things, but you actually have to change them yourself.” Andy Warhol

Change can be shocking & difficult to digest of course and this funny ad is a good example of that sort of change………

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