Why do they do it?  Aren’t there enough desperate single people online?  Why do the marrieds have to complicate the situation by posting personal ads on dating websites?  Not to worry, no one’s getting called out.  And I promise I’m not here to bust you for visiting AshleyMadison.com more than once.  I’m just going to explain the reality of the situation, the psychology online “married” cruiser and the group dynamic at work.

Why Marrieds Do It

[Read more...]

Did you know that there are multiple levels of happy?  Yes, though you might think that any smile is a big turn on, you may be surprised to know just what various online friends are REALLY saying with their smile.  Let’s discuss some variations of the smile and how you can “read” a girl or a guy online. 

The Mouth and the Smile

[Read more...]

One of the most commonly asked questions by online dating sites is what type of religious affiliation are you, or perhaps what type of religion are you open to dating.  Why is this important?  Isn’t it much better if we all live in a peaceful world and get along regardless of differences?

Fat chance of that!  Seriously, asking a couple to love each other regardless of religious, national, moral and ethical differences is next to impossible.  It’s one thing to be tolerant of another person’s beliefs.  However, coexisting with a person who sees things very differently than you do is a recipe for disaster.

[Read more...]

No, we’re not talking about an orgasm.  In fact, we’re not entirely sure how to fake an orgasm through text messages.  If you know, please let us know.  What this refers to is faking a relationship when you’re dating online.  What does it mean, to fake a relationship?  It means that you adapt yourself to the other person, charming him or her, so that you can accelerate a relationship you are not sure you want.

Why People Fake It

[Read more...]

This is such a heated topic in the bar scene, and it’s even more controversial in online dating.  It seems like a reasonable thing to do, right?  If a woman is good looking, you should be able to tell her so.  In fact, not being afraid of a woman’s beauty and being at peace with your own manly desires is rule number one in the guy’s flirting handbook. 

Why then are so many experts claiming that you shouldn’t tell a woman how beautiful she is? Well, this is an obvious point.  Some guys take “you are beautiful!” and hammer it into the ground, never contributing anything else to the conversation.  Do you now see how annoying this can be to a woman who wants to talk about something else besides her body and your manly desires?

[Read more...]