it’s pretty clear that female desire is different than male desire, as is evidenced by the fact that men & women are different.  Women even usually have different predilection in using their senses, than men.  For men the visual is usually the main route to stimulating their desire, whereas women usually sound is important as to other senses.

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scientists have now discovered that social rejection literally causes pain.  They are a bit late to the party but heh better late than never.  Of course any kind of loss, separation or death causes real pain & now they can measure it in the brain.

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I read about an online dating site this week where men pay to buy a date with a gal.  It’s like ebay for love????  However they’re not wanting to be identified with prostitution?????? Good luck with that…

“Money, it turned out, was exactly like sex, you thought of nothing else if you didn’t have it and thought of other things if you did.” James Baldwin

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technology had definitely changed our lives & our relationships.  Most people have tried online dating or met people through social networks.  However there have recently been articles focused on the failures of online sites to deliver good matches or any near half decent matches for users.  It’s a different world online & there are many new & different skills that need to be developed to be successful in whatever it is that we are focusing & trying to accomplish.  The human factor & chemistry are key in dating & maybe online dating sites have not been really successful at providing platforms that include this key piece?

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