security is usually an issue in any relationship, whether we base everything on that goal or whether we don’t care about it all. It is difficult to match a couple with the same attitude towards security and this can prove to create difficulties down the line.
When I was young I read Alan Watt’s book ‘The Wisdom of Insecurity’ which was a brilliant read! Alan wrote: ‘What we have forgotten is that thoughts and words are conventions, and that it is fatal to take conventions too seriously.’ Maybe I should stop writing now, while I’m, ahead???
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