crossing the hormonal divide

You’ve gotta love being a woman & being subject to hormones from woe to go! It turns out that they tend to dominate your body through the life – with their comings & goings. Beware a hormonal woman! Of course it is these little messengers that are also responsible on a biological level for the impetus for relationships. Its always a great reminder to me that at some level I am not in control as the phases of my life unfold – on some level I make the best of these natural things!

I decided that I would investigate them and found the following information: ‘Hormones carry messages from glands to cells to maintain chemical levels in the bloodstream that achieve homeostasis. “Hormone” comes from a word that means, “to spur on.” This reflects how the presence of hormones acts as a catalyst for other chemical changes at the cellular level necessary for growth, development, and energy. As members of the endocrine system, glands manufacture hormones. Hormones circulate freely in the bloodstream, waiting to be recognized by a target cell, their intended destination. The target cell has a receptor that can only be activated by a specific type of hormone. Once activated, the cell knows to start a certain function within its walls. Genes might get activated, or energy production resumed. There are two types of hormones known as steroids and peptides. In general, steroids are sex hormones related to sexual maturation and fertility. Steroids are made from cholesterol either by the placenta when we’re in the womb, or by our adrenal gland or gonads (testes or ovaries) after birth. Steroids determine physical development from puberty on to old age, as well as fertility cycles. Peptides regulate other functions such as sleep and sugar concentration. They are made from long strings of amino acids, so sometimes they are referred to as ‘protein’ hormones. Growth hormone, for example, helps us burn fat and build up muscles. Another peptide hormone, insulin, starts the process to convert sugar into cellular energy.’ So that explains the physical reality of what happens, but not how to adjust to as the hormonal rhythm which goes up & down during our lifetime. Many years ago I also learnt about xenoestrogens from reading a book called ‘Passage to Power’ by Leslie Kenton. These are artificial female hormones which can heighten your risk of breast cancer and prostrate cancer. They are found in plastics and in the hormones that are fed to stock. We have to be careful not to get too many of xenoestrogens or it throws us off balance even further! When my dad got prostrate cancer he had treatment with female hormones as well as chemotherapy. He did eventually died of another species of prostrate cancer. It all seems so reflective of needing to achieve balance in our lives, our relationships and our bodies and of the challenges we face in this time on the planet where so much seems to be out of balance! Yin/Yang & Feminine/Masculine & Love/Death

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differences between men & women

The differences between men and women are many & varied. Its amazing really that we manage to meet at all and somehow have relationships? Of course the differences are what brings the initial interest and fascination with each other. At the end it is also what drives us crazy about the other! Yin & yang!

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vulnerability

we all have different areas that can make us feel vulnerable, they come from undeveloped functions within ourselves. Mine is my body and the sensate function (Jungian terminology). So my vulnerability really shows up when I am unwell or physically tired. It is my greatest fear & also my greatest challenge when my health or body breaks down. Of course I demand so much from it that this can be a regular occurrence. I have spent what seems to be a lifetime trying to shore this area up, by learning as much as I can about health and healing, without actually going into a health profession.

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respect

when I think about respect, Aretha’s words beat out in my head ‘R-E-S-P-E-C-T Find out what it means to me!’ I know it means the world to me and I need to be able to respect someone to have a relationship with them. Of course respect starts at home, and this means that we must respect ourselves. Then we know when we are not being treated with respect in relationships, it then registers that there is something wrong. If we have no respect for ourselves, then being treated disrespectfully by others may not even register that this is not appropriate.

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humor

A good sense of humor and fun is to me one of the biggest pluses in relationships. It can change the color of your day when someone cracks a funny or you join someone in a spontaneous laugh at the ridiculous in our day to day lives or relationships.

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